My feeling is that CarPlay allows us to use our existing phone data plans for all of our “app data”. This limits the value of the Rivian Connection+ subscription or whatever it is called. I think that’s the real reason they don’t want to allow it.
I haven’t actually ridden in a Rivian yet, (contemplating a move once my Mach-e is out of battery warranty) but I kind of like a little motor whine. Reminds me it is doing something.
The prejudice against EV owners by the average American is probably similar to the prejudice against non-EV owners by the average EV owner. There are zealots on both sides. But most humans know how to be polite in person.
I’ve got a Mustang Mach E and love Ford’s keypad on the pillar just for situations like this. I’m really surprised other manufacturers haven’t developed something similar.