I'm a very new reservation holder (Jan 8th, 2023), and located in Etobicoke (Toronto) and haven't received anything (didn't expect to, to be fair).
Speculating, I don't think you living in Kapuskasing is really the factor. While not "close", there are plenty of R1 customers in the US that are...
Technically, you’re on the hook for any “improvement” to the vehicle for a period of 1 year after purchase, so you’ll have to pay the luxury tax on the kitchen regardless. The code was written this way expressly for situations like what you are trying to do (eg. Expensive wheel or other upgrades...