ok. my bad. I was confused by your reference to "J1772 adapters" on a Tesla charger (repeated again). Did Tesla ever build car that "wants" J1772? If not, why did they even make this charger?
That's the reverse of what happened here. This guy converted the male plug on his Rivian (J1772) charger to fit into his Tesla. What you've done is the other way around.
In Texas, we are born knowing that when you encounter another car on a two lane road, you are expected to (at least) lift a forefinger off of the steering wheel to acknowledge the existence of another human being. If it's a particularly "lonely" road, it's all four with just the thumb still...