Zeusy Zeus
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Thank you for the well thought out response there’s always something we can all improve on no? Tbh it wasn’t the response I thought I would get but nonetheless I’m thankful you shared your opinion and time with me. And thanks for the suggestion on reading that nice poem I will share it along Cheers Dave ?Thanks for sharing this longer string, @Zeusy Zeus.
Your text responses and your forum participation appear consistent with OCD, all right, but long-distance diagnosis is neither appropriate nor helpful.
I'm not a qualified counselor, but a wise question might be, "Is my behavior achieving the outcomes I want, or is my behavior getting in the way of what I want?" Once you answer that question, you (and maybe a counselor or wise friend) will have some clarity about what goals to pursue.
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You and Rivian seem to agree on one thing: The fuss over charger pricing is no longer worth the effort to either of you. If that's the case, it's also not worth the manager's time -- even though some future issue might be worth the manager's time. If I were in Pam's position, I might respond as noncommittally as she did.
In the recovery community, anticipating FUTURE difficulties is sometimes labeled as "future tripping," and sometimes gets in the way of day-to-day sobriety.
PLANNING is a helpful thing -- but every helpful thing, including planning, can be overdone. Often we get in the way of our own happiness.
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I don't get to tell you what to do, @Zeusy Zeus -- but I hope the questions and advice above might have some value in your life. Your "one wild and precious life," to use the phrase from Mary Oliver's poem "The Summer Day" (https://www.loc.gov/programs/poetry...all-poems/item/poetry-180-133/the-summer-day/)
You can fire Rivian. Your life will go on, and so will Rivian's. But is that what you want? I wish for you a long life in which you achieve your most important goals. Whether that includes a Rivian is up to you.
Your Rivian will never be a perfect experience. It will require patience with its complicated nature. Things will go wrong at times. That's why many of us rely on our fellow adventurers in this forum.
If you want an absolutely predictable vehicle experience, this isn't it yet. If you want to be part of making a better world, the Rivian experience -- with all of its messiness and uncertainty -- can advance that goal very nicely.
Good luck, @Zeusy Zeus! Very best wishes!
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